Keep your "but"...
... but in service of love and truth.

Life, not as a problem to be solved,
but a mystery to be lived.

A life full-filled by "I don't know", the bravery to effortlessly outgrow the cocoon of "me" as a separate-self.

Risking friendship/community:
GardenOfFriends.com 

"Aiding in the transition
from a conceptual self (me)
into being (I am)": CFAAE.com

Being in the world, practical and response-able, as the effortless by-product of openness and fun-da-mental insight.